Built for high-conflict situations

When every exchange feels like a battle, put the facts on your side.

You shouldn't have to brace for every message and handoff. ARIA strips the heat out of communication, Silent Handoff keeps contact at zero with GPS-verified exchanges, and every message is timestamped and SHA-256 sealed — so your kids stay protected and the record speaks for itself.

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Could your family benefit from more structure?

Many families find that clear structure and documentation brings peace.

Communication with your co-parent often feels stressful

You want clear records of all parenting decisions

Schedule changes sometimes cause confusion or frustration

You want to ensure your children have consistent routines

Important information about your children sometimes gets lost

You want structure and clarity in your co-parenting relationship

You need documentation for legal proceedings

You want to focus more on your children and less on coordination

A day in the life

The message that
didn’t ruin her week

11:47 PM

The message arrives late. Three paragraphs, engineered to land. By the third line Renee’s hands are shaking.

For two years

She knew the pattern: react, regret, get baited into a reply that would show up in court out of context. She had lived it over and over.

This time

ARIA caught it first — flagged the manipulation, narrowed her reply to the one logistical fact that mattered, and saved every word, timestamped.

The same night

The message built to provoke her got a calm, two-sentence answer about pickup time. Documented. Done. She put the phone down and actually slept.

When it counted

In court, the record spoke for itself. Renee didn’t have to.

High-conflict doesn’t end because you want it to. It loses its grip when every message is calm, logged, and out of your head. Here’s what does that.

Tools that protect your family

Every feature designed to bring clarity, structure, and peace to your co-parenting.

ARIA Communication Support

ARIA reviews each message and rewrites the heat out before it sends, keeping the conversation about your children.

Complete Documentation

Every message, schedule change, exchange, and agreement is timestamped and securely stored — automatically.

Court-ready exports

Export a complete documentation package with SHA-256 verification that attorneys and courts can trust.

Pattern Tracking

Track scheduling patterns, response times, and agreement compliance to maintain clear, objective records.

Compliance Metrics

Objective data on schedule adherence and communication responsiveness. Clear facts, not assumptions.

Tamper-Proof Records

SHA-256 hash verification ensures records cannot be altered. Every entry is cryptographically sealed.

Structured Co-Parenting

Clear boundaries, calmer families

When direct communication is challenging, structured co-parenting lets you focus on raising your children effectively while maintaining healthy boundaries.

CommonGround provides the structure: clear boundaries, automatic documentation, and communication support that keeps the focus on your children.

Clear Boundaries

Set communication windows, topic guidelines, and response timeframes that work for your family.

Minimal Direct Contact

ARIA handles the coordination and Silent Handoff runs zero-contact exchanges, so you focus on your children, not the interactions.

Automatic Record Keeping

Everything is documented automatically. Focus on being present for your kids.

Constructive Communication

Your thoughtful communication efforts are tracked. Build a record of good faith cooperation.

Response Time Tracking

Your average response2.3 hours

Co-parent average response18.7 hours

Response times are tracked automatically and available in documentation exports.

Court-Ready

Documentation you can trust

When you need clear records, CommonGround exports provide the documentation that courts and attorneys rely on.

Communication Logs

Complete message history with timestamps, ARIA suggestions, and response times.

Schedule Compliance

Visual timeline of all exchanges, modifications, and adherence to agreements.

Cooperation Metrics

Objective measures of each parent's communication responsiveness and cooperation.

Pattern Analysis

AI-identified patterns in communication and scheduling over time.

Documentation Package

Court-formatted PDF with hash verification, ready for legal proceedings.

Professional Access

Share read-only access with attorneys, GALs, therapists, or custody evaluators.

See a sample documentation export

Families finding peace

Structure and clarity changed their co-parenting experience.

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CommonGround gave me peace of mind. I have clear records of every interaction, and my attorney said the documentation was exactly what we needed.

Parent using CommonGround for 14 months

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ARIA helped me communicate more clearly. My kids noticed the difference — they said things feel calmer now.

Parent in California

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The structure changed everything for our family. The kids know what to expect, and we spend less time coordinating and more time being parents.

Parent in Texas

Common Questions

How is this different from just texting?▼

Text messages can be deleted, screenshots can be questioned, and context is easily lost. CommonGround creates tamper-proof records with timestamps, read receipts, response times, and hash verification that courts can trust. Every message is permanently logged.

What if my co-parent doesn't want to use the app?▼

You can still use CommonGround for one-sided documentation. Your messages are logged even if they respond via text. Many courts now recommend parenting apps for structured communication. Your attorney can request it be included in your parenting plan.

Can my co-parent see that ARIA suggested changes?▼

They only see the final message you send. They cannot see your original draft or that you used ARIA. Your constructive communication efforts are tracked in your cooperation metrics.

Will this help in court?▼

CommonGround documentation has been used successfully in custody proceedings. The objective nature of the data — timestamps, GPS verification, compliance metrics — provides the clear records courts need. Several family law attorneys now recommend it to clients.

What about emergency situations?▼

CommonGround is for regular co-parenting communication, not emergencies. For emergencies involving child safety, always call 911 first. However, all follow-up communication should still go through the app for documentation purposes.

How long are records kept?▼

All records are kept indefinitely on paid plans. Free tier users have 90-day message history, but you can upgrade at any time to access complete archives. We recommend maintaining your account through the duration of any ongoing custody case.

Your children deserve calm.

Let ARIA calm the messages, Silent Handoff handle the exchanges, and every record stay court-ready — so you can be present for your kids again.

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